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Title: Personal Tragic Occurrence
Post by: chargerdon on December 17, 2019, 09:05:30 AM
Over the last three years i had developed a close friendship with a car and golf lover.   His name was Charles Lejambre.   Together we changed the camshaft in my engine.   Pulled the engine and after a total new block rebuild reinstalled it.  He loaned me his engine hoist to do this.

I helped him pull the engine and upgrade the camshaft in his 2006 Pontiac GTO.   I also helped him rebuild both engines on his twin engine 1960 vintage Beechcraft airplane.  Recently he loaned me his transmission jack, and was going to help me install the A518 into my 74 Challenger.  Recently he had ordered a supercharger for his GTO and together we were going to install it in his garage. 

We played golf together numerous times over the past 2 1/2 years...  Heck Chairlie even flew his plane along with two other guys to Myrtle Beach from Raleigh for a round of golf, dinner and a fantastic trip.  A great guy car lover, golf lover and close friend.   

Yesterday, while on the golf course he had an apparent heart attack and past away.   He will be missed in many many ways !   Charlie here is to you, hoping you have many hole-in-one up there, and that your GTO runs into the 11's in the 1/4 mile.

Sometimes, life just isn't fair !!
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Post by: anlauto on December 17, 2019, 09:22:47 AM
Yup...that sucks....at least it sounds as if your friend was living life to the fullest... :andyangel:
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Post by: usraptor on December 17, 2019, 09:48:36 AM
Sorry to hear that. Sometimes life sucks.
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Post by: Brads70 on December 17, 2019, 09:56:35 AM
Sorry to hear this, tough one especially at this time of the year. My condolences.  :sorry:
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Post by: MEK-Dangerous on December 17, 2019, 10:02:28 AM
I'm sorry for your loss.

At least he went out doing something he loved. At the same time though, it had to be a horrible experience for you.
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Post by: YellowThumper on December 17, 2019, 10:21:58 AM
Sorry for your and his families loss.
Yup life is not always fair.
Kinda touches home with me. Recently found out I have a serious heart issue. Only 58 slim and assumed healthy.
Genetics play a huge part.

Back to Charles. If he had family I wish them well.
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Post by: dodj on December 17, 2019, 10:57:07 AM
Sorry for your loss Don
My condolences.
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Post by: js27 on December 17, 2019, 11:44:57 AM
Very Sorry for you loss. Being at Deaths door myself twice in the last 7 years due to a bad heart valve and again from a  widow maker heart attack I can relate. I got two chance at a new life while my father died shoveling snow many years ago from a massive heart attack--Why do some people get a second chance and some people do not ? I have wondered that my whole life. That is just life. I feel that when the times comes that is the best way to leave this earth. I have watched friends and relatives die from cancer. Suffered for months and even years in some cases. Death can be very painful. Knowing your friend did not suffer should help console you. Although it is much harder on the living, losing a loved one fast and unexpected. It is much easier for the deceased. Prayers for you and his family.
JS27
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Post by: Cuda Cody on December 17, 2019, 12:08:00 PM
So sorry for your loss.  :(
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Post by: Chryco Psycho on December 17, 2019, 12:17:36 PM
None of us know how long we have , sounds like the best way to go , fast & doing what you love to do . My condolences for your loss Don  :andyangel:
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Post by: Jay Bee on December 17, 2019, 12:39:52 PM
very sorry to hear of the loss loss of your friend.  :( 
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Post by: chargerdon on December 17, 2019, 01:11:26 PM
Thanks everyone...   Yeah... he went fast doing something he loved... i only hope when my time comes (hopefully not for many many years) that i go the same way.   Still...it sucks !!
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Post by: JS29 on December 17, 2019, 02:40:15 PM
 :console: Sorry for the loss!  :andyangel:
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Post by: floorit426 on December 17, 2019, 03:19:14 PM
That's a very nice write up. One can only hope that they have someone, like you, who can articulate their feelings, when it's their time to go.
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Post by: Challenger in NC on December 17, 2019, 03:38:38 PM
Sorry to here about your friend Don.
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Post by: Skid Row on December 17, 2019, 04:07:38 PM
Sorry about the loss of your friend Don, 1960 Beechcraft Bonanza twin is cool as the pilot that flies one.
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Post by: cuda dad on December 17, 2019, 04:35:56 PM
It's a wake up call for all of us.  I am so sorry for your loss.  Sometimes life is not fair.
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Post by: BIGSHCLUNK on December 17, 2019, 06:23:12 PM
So sorry, you just never know. Do the things you want to do, let loved ones know how you feel.
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Post by: Topcat on December 17, 2019, 07:28:10 PM
 Very sorry to hear about your loss.   :andyangel:


Our Bay area lost a great Mopar buddy recently.
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Post by: DAYLEY/CHALLENGER on December 17, 2019, 07:37:42 PM
Life really does throw us for a loop. Sounds like he was a good friend.  He will be missed more than you know. I know the feeling too.   Lost my oldest son one year ago today.   Just ain't right.
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Post by: jimynick on December 17, 2019, 08:43:24 PM
Losing a buddy like that is surely a kick in the guts; but as said, he went doing what he wanted and that's what counts. Not to be irreverent, but I always figured getting shot by a jealous husband would come close to going on the golf course. Get over there and finish that GTO and remember the good times with Charlie.  :bye:
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Post by: 7E-Bodies on December 18, 2019, 06:53:02 AM
Truly sorry for your loss, brother. Be thankful for having known him. God be with you both.
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Post by: chargerdon on December 18, 2019, 12:10:54 PM
Indeed, we never know what the big guy upstairs has planned for us.   So again thank each and every one of you and may you all have a happy and healthy Christmas and God Bless. 

I feel the sorriest for his widow.   They had no children and no relatives here in NC.   Her closest relative is her sister who lives in Virginia and came for two days to help console her.   

Charlie was an only child and his 88 year old mom lives in NJ and isn't healthy enough to travel.   

So, his widow is having Charlie cremated and no service since there is only her...  My wife and I are trying to talk her into at least spending Christmas with us, but, she of course said that she doesn't want to intrude and wouldn't be much company.  Christmas day i probably will just go to her house and try to get her to come with me for the day.   

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Post by: 71-440 on December 18, 2019, 05:06:15 PM
So sorry for the loss of your friend. :andyangel:
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Post by: 340challconvert on December 21, 2019, 07:17:34 AM
Good and true friends are hard to find
Sorry for the loss of your friend  :andyangel:
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Post by: torredcuda on December 21, 2019, 08:22:21 AM
Sorry to hear. I had a good friend, one of my car buddies pass away a couple years ago at 52 - too young! I miss junkyarding with him and working on our project cars, he didn`t have a lot but would always help out anyone who needed it.