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Title: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Bullitt- on April 16, 2018, 09:28:00 AM
    I don't generally share many things personal but thought this was noteworthy.
As of today I am officially retired from my job of 40-years working in the appliance business. 

Things actually began 49-yrs ago when my father went to work in Huntsville as an appliance salesman (I was 10). In my teen years I would pick up a few hours here & there at the store cleaning, straightening the warehouse, eventually helping to deliver appliances for them.  After high school & a short stent in college I went to work full time in the business in the spring of '78. Along with appliance wrangling I was tapped by the owners, who had another business in Birmingham, to deliver & install automotive radios to dealers in the area which lasted about 3-years when they fell onto financial hard times and were forced to close their businesses. At that time in '81 Dad, with a loan from his older brother, purchased the Huntsville location and he proceeded to grow the business at an incredible rate through the '80s. (thanks President Reagan) I served in many roles, from sales to service manager along the way. By the end of the'80's we had a simple computer system capable of tracking our inventory and A/R. G.E. also had an on-line ordering system they were encouraging us to utilize so three of us were sent to Atlanta for two days of training but upon return I was the only one that even knew how to turn on (boot) the durn thing so I now had the responsibility of ordering a good portion of our merchandise(think I was tricked). Over the next decade or so computers & networks became a more integral part of our business's operation so by default I was involved in development, installation and maintenance of networks and systems with the help of folks in that business. My role expanded to include maintaining databases of items and pricing as well as commissions. Other manufactures introduced on-line resources for ordering while I continued to be the go to guy for anything electronic only getting mostly out from under that responsibility in the last few years but continuing in the role of ordering and data base maintenance to the end.  I had pushed for my folks to sell the business as early as '03 as they were approaching 65-yrs of age but finding anyone with the money & interest proved fruitless. The economy was not kind to us in the latter part of the '00s so about 8-yrs ago decided that rather than selling out, my uncle & younger cousin who had worked there for several years might just take over the operation.  It took a couple of years to complete the transfer of ownership but by Dec.'12 I was officially only an employee. At that time I let them know I would stay on for as long as they wanted me. Their new energy along with improvements in the economy has proved to be very positive for the business even buying/opening two more locations, meanwhile my work load had risen to the point I was having less time than ever to enjoy life outside the workplace.  A little over a year ago, with 60-coming at me like a freight train, I decided it was time they found my replacement so for months I frequently reminded them to do so. After discussions with my now  80ish parents in December I told my uncle that the time had come for me to get out & to make a decision ASAP not knowing that within a few weeks my Father would pass away. Within a couple of weeks of his passing I gave my uncle the date... April 13 would be my last day....
That's the short version LOL.

So today I begin what I believe will be a very busy & fruitful retirement   :woohoo:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Timbbuc2 on April 16, 2018, 09:45:52 AM
Good for you, and thanks for sharing your story. I am bumping on 60 with-in 2 weeks :thinking: So I need to be thinking in the same way !
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: BIGSHCLUNK on April 16, 2018, 09:48:14 AM
Good for you Wade.  :bradsthumb:  If you get bored I can always use a little help around the shop. You young guys sheeeese.
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: RUNCHARGER on April 16, 2018, 09:53:12 AM
Interesting story. Congrats and enjoy your free time.
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: one bad fish on April 16, 2018, 10:19:17 AM
Great story and thanks for sharing. I believe a lot of us here are pushing the age of 60, myself included.
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: purple1 on April 16, 2018, 10:26:36 AM
Congratulations Wade! Hope every thing works out for you.  :wave:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: anlauto on April 16, 2018, 10:27:14 AM
Curious as to why you didn't buy the company from your Dad in 03 ? or did you already own a part of it ?

Great story by the way :bigthumb:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Cuda Cody on April 16, 2018, 10:27:53 AM
I'm super excited for you!!!  Hope you enjoy this great time in your life.   :banana: 
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: ToxicWolf on April 16, 2018, 10:34:55 AM
Thank you for the great story ... and welcome to what is turning out to be the best part of my life ... RETIREMENT!  :banana:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Bullitt- on April 16, 2018, 11:03:12 AM
Quote from: anlauto on April 16, 2018, 10:27:14 AM
Curious as to why you didn't buy the company from your Dad in 03 ? or did you already own a part of it ?


   Personalty is the way I see it..  I'm am an only child so by by default it was mine but unlike my Dad I'm not a people person.. As you can tell my role was in the background mostly greasing the wheels.  I could not see having the responsibility of dealing with all the BS business owners have to put up with.     
   I think by any measure I've had a good life because of the business yet I can't say I was really happy doing it.. I should have been a mechanic or something where I didn't have to deal with people so much ..
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: anlauto on April 16, 2018, 11:08:31 AM
Pretty honest answer...thanks for sharing :drinkingbud:....now get on with RETIREMENT ! :banana:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Jay Bee on April 16, 2018, 11:24:51 AM
That was an awesome read, thanks for sharing. Congratulations on a great career and all the best for a super retirement.

I especially loved the part about being "tricked".  Where I worked (retired too) if you showed competence in something it was your responsibility for life.
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Spikedog08 on April 16, 2018, 12:16:26 PM
That's great news Wade!  Congratulations!   :banana:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: BIGSHCLUNK on April 16, 2018, 12:58:48 PM
Quote from: Bullitt- on April 16, 2018, 11:03:12 AM
Quote from: anlauto on April 16, 2018, 10:27:14 AM
Curious as to why you didn't buy the company from your Dad in 03 ? or did you already own a part of it ?


   Personalty is the way I see it..  I'm am an only child so by by default it was mine but unlike my Dad I'm not a people person.. As you can tell my role was in the background mostly greasing the wheels.  I could not see having the responsibility of dealing with all the BS business owners have to put up with.     
   I think by any measure I've had a good life because of the business yet I can't say I was really happy doing it.. I should have been a mechanic or something where I didn't have to deal with people so much ..
Wise words here for sure...looks like you had lots of the perks w/o all the headaches. Altho being an owner is good... many times its a real PITA. Trust me on that one
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: bluespruce on April 16, 2018, 01:07:25 PM
Enjoy your retirement
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: 303 Mopar on April 16, 2018, 01:32:55 PM
Congrats!  Make sure you have a lot of things to occupy your time, and that they are enjoyable! 
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Burdar on April 16, 2018, 01:44:54 PM
Wonderful news.  Congratulations!  Enjoy it.  You deserve it.   :bigthumb:

Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Brads70 on April 16, 2018, 02:18:31 PM
Wow , Great to hear some happy news for a change! Enjoy Wade you have earned it!  :woohoo:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: xx88man on April 16, 2018, 02:19:57 PM
Enjoy your retirement...sounds to me like plenty of time to enjoy your E-body!
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Bullitt- on April 16, 2018, 03:10:16 PM
Quote from: xx88man on April 16, 2018, 02:19:57 PM
Enjoy your retirement...sounds to me like plenty of time to enjoy your E-body!

That's part of The Plan Brother   :wrenching:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: 71-440 on April 16, 2018, 03:24:14 PM
Congrats! Enjoy your retirement!
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Challenger in NC on April 16, 2018, 03:44:26 PM
Congratulations, it's good you can retire at a relatively young age.
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: HP_Cuda on April 16, 2018, 03:48:56 PM

Congrats! and remember retirement is another word for enjoying what you want to do.

:twothumbsup:

I'm thinking of retiring early and it looks possible/probable with each passing day.
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: EDL94 on April 16, 2018, 04:15:41 PM
 :clapping: Good job getting out at a younger age. Most people work till they are to old and can not  enjoy their retirement. I still have about 7 years to go but 60 is a good age to do it. ENJOY!!
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: captcolour on April 16, 2018, 06:36:04 PM
Enjoy your retirement.  I turn 60 in July and hopefully won't be too far behind you.
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: J-Code Jeni on April 16, 2018, 07:01:09 PM
Great story! :woohoo: Congratulations on your retirement and for doing so young enough to be able to fully engage too!  :veryexcited:  :drinkingbud:

Also, I think it's fantastic you were able to work with your parents, not many people get to do that and I have to believe there were more good days than bad. Sorry to hear your Dad passed recently, perhaps that makes your time working together even more special now.


Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: dodj on April 16, 2018, 07:02:26 PM
Congrats Wade!
Hope you have a long, happy, and rewarding retirement!  :cheers:


Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Bullitt- on April 16, 2018, 07:24:09 PM
Quote from: EDL94 on April 16, 2018, 04:15:41 PM
:clapping: Good job getting out at a younger age. Most people work till they are to old and can not  enjoy their retirement. I still have about 7 years to go but 60 is a good age to do it. ENJOY!!

You hit one of the nails on the head... I watched my parents as they aged and eventually the business was the only thing in their life as everything else went by the wayside.  There was a time they traveled and were very active in the community.   Dad had become less involved in day to day operations even before he hit 60 but Mom couldn't let go of the strings till the very end.  Even 6 years later she wants to talk shop way to much IMO....
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: RUNCHARGER on April 16, 2018, 07:40:05 PM
I hope you transition okay. I had 30 years of intensity in the Railroad and ended that at 49. I knew it would take it's toll on my health and was happy to leave. Then I drove truck and ended up running a storage business for 6 years which I thought was pretty mellow. I retired for 2 years but got a bit bored and went back to work 10 months ago but maybe that was because my wife was working still. I think I may quit working in a short while again but maybe I'll volunteer so I can keep myself busy when I feel like it. I've talked to a few people that volunteer though and they say it can be a hassle as well, it all starts out well then you start getting pressured to put more time in than you want. I guess I have a love/hate relationship with people. I get bored when not dealing with people but want to kill some of them when I am dealing with them.
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: jimynick on April 16, 2018, 08:44:57 PM
Congratulations on retiring at 60, Wade! I'm just jealous, since I was 64+ before I got to tell them to "take this job and shove it!" I'm sure that between the "honey do" list and the car, that you'll stay out of trouble.  ;)
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: 70/6chall on April 16, 2018, 08:47:13 PM
Congratulations Wade! That was a great story, enjoy your retirement to the fullest. By all means keep yourself busy with projects you've been wanting to get to. Worst thing you can do is become sedentary it sneaks up on you when you don't know it. After 4 years in the Navy, I stayed with the Federal Govt. for another 41 years, finally retired in 2015. I turned 70 last Dec and keep the thought of OLD out of the equation. Revel in your retirement.     Thanks,   Al
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Chryco Psycho on April 16, 2018, 09:03:49 PM
Congrats Wade
Keep busy doing what you want to now !!
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: 1ownr on April 17, 2018, 03:56:09 AM
Congratulations Wade! Time to teach your granddaughter about Mopars.

Judy & Charlie
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: mopar thunder on April 17, 2018, 04:23:37 AM
Congrats!  :ohyeah: I hope you enjoy every bit of retirement. My career didn't go as planned with 2 lay offs then I got into Federal employment so I have a bit to go before I can retire.
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: ZEN357 on April 17, 2018, 05:37:28 AM
Congrats!!!  Hope you have a long and happy retirement!!!
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Slotts on April 17, 2018, 06:38:28 AM
CONGRATULATIONS WADE!!! May you enjoy a long and healthy retirement! Good for you!  :clapping:

Jim
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Dakota on April 17, 2018, 08:01:21 AM
Congrats on your retirement! As I have recently learned, as a retiree you will now have near complete control of your schedule (it's "near complete" because my wife still retains veto power on my plans).  It's a great gig - enjoy it. 
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Bullitt- on April 17, 2018, 08:37:26 AM
Quote from: 1ownr on April 17, 2018, 03:56:09 AM
Congratulations Wade! Time to teach your granddaughter about Mopars.

Judy & Charlie

As a matter of fact we'll be working on this just next week. ... Combining beach trip with Battlesship Mopar show & a day at Destin FL where the kids recently relocated.   I see many beach trips in my future..   8)
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: JS29 on April 17, 2018, 08:45:17 AM
 :congrats: :twothumbsup:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: blown motor on April 17, 2018, 09:53:23 AM
Congratulations Wade. I hope you don't go the same way as some of my car friends around here. They're retired and they're too darn busy to take their cars out!  :rofl:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Timbbuc2 on April 17, 2018, 01:28:41 PM
Since you have ALL that time on your hands, you ever had any work done at R&R Speed shop in Huntsville?
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Bullitt- on April 17, 2018, 04:28:01 PM
Quote from: Timbbuc2 on April 17, 2018, 01:28:41 PM
Since you have ALL that time on your hands, you ever had any work done at R&R Speed shop in Huntsville?

No sir, I know folks down through the years that have, I've been there several times...
They are suppose to be one of the better machine shops around & know Mopar well.
What kind of work are you looking to have done?
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Timbbuc2 on April 18, 2018, 01:26:35 PM
Quote from: Bullitt- on April 17, 2018, 04:28:01 PM
Quote from: Timbbuc2 on April 17, 2018, 01:28:41 PM
Since you have ALL that time on your hands, you ever had any work done at R&R Speed shop in Huntsville?

No sir, I know folks down through the years that have, I've been there several times...
They are suppose to be one of the better machine shops around & know Mopar well.
What kind of work are you looking to have done?
The car I bought came with a new 383 built by them never been fired, I was checking to see if you had heard of them and  their reputation.
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: superdave on April 18, 2018, 02:49:59 PM
Congratulations!! :banana: And enjoy retirement for me as I have failed to live life in such a way that I should ever be able to retire. :bricks:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: 73440 on April 18, 2018, 05:13:50 PM
Quote from: superdave on April 18, 2018, 02:49:59 PM
Congratulations!! :banana: And enjoy retirement for me as I have failed to live life in such a way that I should ever be able to retire. :bricks:


Or like me lived as if we wouldnt live this long.
Just want to get where I dont have an alarm clock waking me for work.

Enjoy your retirement!
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Bullitt- on April 18, 2018, 05:37:49 PM
Quote from: superdave on April 18, 2018, 02:49:59 PM
for me as I have failed to live life in such a way that I should ever be able to retire. :bricks:

You and and about everyone else I know.... Think my family is descended from squirrels, not taking on debt and always saving for the future...   I don't know your situation but I'd suggest doing everything ya can to get out & stay out of debt.   
THE DAY is gonna come where working is not a viable option.

Best of Luck to ya 
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Topcat on April 18, 2018, 06:42:07 PM
A little late to your retirement party Wade.  :D

Congratulations.

Enjoy doing things you've always wanted to do but never had the time.
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Bullitt- on April 18, 2018, 07:24:01 PM
Quote from: Topcat on April 18, 2018, 06:42:07 PM
A little late to your retirement party Wade.  :D

Congratulations.

Enjoy doing things you've always wanted to do but never had the time.

YEP, YEP, YEP...  That's The Plan anyhow....
Lot's to do to get caught up, figure to be busier than ever   :woohoo:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Topcat on April 18, 2018, 07:47:29 PM
Any Big travel plans?

Other countries or far away?

Where would you like to go visit the most?
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: Bullitt- on April 19, 2018, 03:58:38 AM
Quote from: Topcat on April 18, 2018, 07:47:29 PM
Any Big travel plans?

Other countries or far away?

Where would you like to go visit the most?

  After I can get my Sweetheart Terri retired I'm thinking we will do some but nothing over the top.
Personally I enjoy historic places, one I'm looking forward to visiting is St. Augustine, Fl. I've been to Charleston S.C. and more recently Gettysburg, PA and was blown away.
   I'm not into going overseas but Terri for some reason want's to visit Austria.... Sound of Music fan LOL
  She is also a HUGE Country Music Fan so I'm thinking catching acts in interesting places may steer us just about anywhere. And she's never been to Disney....gotta check that off her list  :woohoo:
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: RUNCHARGER on April 19, 2018, 07:13:49 PM
My orange car is in Austria, you can be on the lookout for it.
Title: Re: ***This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life***
Post by: RusTy/SE on April 23, 2018, 05:35:09 PM
Congratulations Wade - really happy for you as well as your family and the times you will get to spend with everybody - and a certain JA5 Challenger Rallye  :wrenching:  :)

Hope to catch up with you at the Battleship Show - looks like perfect weather this coming weekend with no clouds and temps in the mid 70s :yes:

:cheers: